Our beloved Kumiko Oga moved on to meet her mom and dad in heaven on June 19th at the tender age of 58 years old. We could tell you a lot about her achievements, she had many after graduating as a Communications Major from Boston College. Like how hard she worked to get her real estate license, for example. We could also bring you to tears, laughing at the stories of her and all the wonderful crew who flew with her at American Airlines. But for all of us who had the privilege of knowing her, it will be the essence of her, the experience of being with her and around her that we will all remember.

There are people who leave behind accomplishments as well as those who leave behind stories. And then every once in a while there are the very rare and few who leave behind a way of being in the world.

Kumi was one of those people.

When you were with her, even if it was for a little while, you remembered the way she made you feel. Safe. Welcome. Important. As though there was always going to be enough goodness in the world to believe tomorrow would somehow be okay.

There was a rare lightness to her. She moved through the world with the fierce curiosity of a child, completely untouched by resentment. It was like Kumi had looked at her past and decided that bitterness was simply too heavy a burden to carry. So, she dropped it. Because of that, her laughter came easily, her sense of wonder never faded, and she met every new chapter with an open, breathless heart.

Kumiko believed deeply in people. She believed goodness was stronger than cruelty, that hardship eventually gives way to hope, and that even the most difficult times would pass. She didn't ignore life's troubles and burdens. She just simply and steadfastly refused to let them become the loudest voice in the room.

For those fortunate enough to love her, she offered something difficult to describe but impossible to forget. She made people feel safe. Truly safe. The kind of safety that allows a person to become more fully themselves. Those who had known hurt often found healing in her quiet acceptance. Those who had already known love somehow felt even more loved. She had the extraordinary gift of making the world around her softer, lighter, and more forgiving. She will be deeply missed, but for all who know her, you will absolutely agree that she lives on in the two beautiful and kind children she raised into wise, strong, capable, and wonderful adults – Taka and Tomo. Kumiko is also survived by her beloved husband Toru Oga, who was awarded the Japanese Cuisine Goodwill Ambassador distinction by the Japanese government through the Consul General of Japan. He is the accomplished master chef and owner of the amazing Ginza, Oga’s, and Muku restaurants.

Visitation will be held at the Collins Funeral Home, located at 378 Lincoln St., Marlborough, MA, from 3:00-5:00 PM on Sunday, July 12, with a formal service beginning at 5:00 PM. Following the service, guests are invited to a reception from 6:30-8:30 PM at the Enclave at Hudson, located at 4 Barnes Blvd. in Hudson, MA. The gathering will be held in the clubhouse located within the living community. Parking is limited, so we kindly ask that guests carpool as much as possible. Additional parking is available at the Sauta Farms Soccer Field #2 on Hummock Way in Hudson; guests will then be shuttled to the clubhouse.